UGH!

Is it really so uncommon for a guy and a girl to JUST BE FRIENDS?! My friend Theresa keeps making fun of me and my other friend Tom. It's really not that shocking that we aren't dating! He is just my friend! I am so annoyed at her right now.

Who? What? Where? When? Who is this "Jenna" you are talking about? And this "Jake?"

I coded the names. People don't like their real names out on the internet without permission. And"Jake's" my friend.

I think I know who Jenna is- O? I don't know who Jake is though.

You don't know Jenna or Jake.

Oh. You know, it's just their first names, and it's not like they'll be on this site. Plus, nobody's going to go on other sites and say "I know this girl, whose friend ___ was making fun of her for being friends with a boy, ___!"

I edited the first post.

Oh, thanks!

It's not uncommon. I'm friends with this dude named TJ but we are afraid of rumors like that so we don't really hang out in public. Most peeps are surprised when I tell them we're friends

Who's TJ?

see what i mean? =) i'll tell u 2morrow

Well, I think I know who he is... is he in 8th grade?

nope

He's one of my best friends. I have more "ugh" moments to share later.

lol. same. i've been friends with TJ since 2nd grade. we're SUPER close.

MORE UGH MOMENTS:
1) EVERY SINGLE GIRL IN MY GRADE IS A DRAMA QUEEN! The most annoying thing in the world, I swear to God. A girl made out with a guy on a bus for 15 seconds just so people would start talking about her. I don't think that ANYONE in my grade knows the meaning of the words "negative attention."

2) MY HISTORY TEACHER! I absolutely hate her. She lied about me on my report card! Can you believe it? So obnoxious!

3) MY FRIENDS! My friend is such a drama queen. She claims that she tries to "avoid drama." If she wants to avoid drama, don't EVER play truth or dare if they dare people to kiss. Seriously! She's not the person who was making out with a guy, but she did kiss him on the cheek. She made it sound like she was practically pushed against his face. It was basically voluntary.

Wow, looking at my problems all written out, they seem really stupid. It helps put my problems in perspective.

I don't know exactly who TJ is but I think I do... maybe... ooooo, i have something to say about the boys and girls can be friends things... me and my boy friend have known each other since kindegarten and just started dating this year... but now I wish that I never went out with him(he has always had a thing 4 me) because now I'm having second thoughts about this whole thing. Is this bad? I need help... HELP!!!!!!!!!

Don't trap yourself in a relationship you don't want to be in. Clear your mind. Why do you just want to be friends? Are you guys always fighting? Or do you just not see him like that anymore? Think about it.

I want to be friends but I don't know we can go back to that. We do fight sometimes but isn't that normal? I do like him but went we are alone he opens up but when we are not alone he's all UGH!!!!! What do I do?

Lulu wrote:I want to be friends but I don't know we can go back to that. We do fight sometimes but isn't that normal? I do like him but went we are alone he opens up but when we are not alone he's all UGH!!!!! What do I do?

Whatever happens you know I'll be here for you all the way. I know this hasn't worked before, but you have to talk to him one last time. If I wrote out everything I want to tell you, it would take a long time, so I'll talk to you at school. Promise.

Thanks i guess. but school is in a week. Thats too long!!!! and i got another problem, on valintines day he didn't call, text, etc. i had to call him!!! HELP!!!!